Issues I Do not Care About After Running a blog Magnificence for Almost 20 Years

I really feel like I’ve seen every thing there’s to see within the magnificence world after practically twenty years of being a magnificence blogger. Loopy developments, uncommon magnificence merchandise, tons of recent merchandise, and so forth…and so forth….! It’s been a wild journey that I’m grateful for on a regular basis of my life as a result of not solely do I get to talk to all of you on a regular basis but in addition, I simply love magnificence and I like doing this even in spite of everything this time. I dunno how lengthy I’ll be doing this however I can’t think about a time I gained’t be doing this or don’t need to do it. The sweetness world and neighborhood has modified a lot over time and it’ll solely change additional within the years forward however I do hope it doesn’t matter what occurs that I’ll be right here for it and hopefully, you’ll be right here with me too.

I do know I’ve discovered lots over time. I imply, I nonetheless don’t know how you can apply make-up appropriately LOL! However I believe I discovered lots about individuals and why they love make-up, about merchandise and how you can use them and what they do, about elements, and I additionally, discovered how you can love who I’m and to not be so essential about myself. With progress, expertise, and just a little self love I additionally discover myself not caring or sweating the small stuff.

In practically twenty years of magnificence running a blog these are the issues I don’t care about anymore.

Packaging
I used to gush over packaging. It was a large consider my magnificence purchases. I admit, I’d make a purchase order if the packaging was good and the product inside wasn’t even all that particular. Lovely packaging was one thing I adored. However I’ve discovered lately it’s actually not as necessary to me because it as soon as was. I’m actually extra involved in regards to the shade, the system, and the way the product performs. Does it are available an affordable plastic compact however has the smoothest, most lovely end? Signal me up! Does it are available a flowery, heavy gold compact with lovely diamonds accenting it however the system is sheer and applies patchy? I’ll skip thanks each a lot. On a uncommon day, I’ll get enthusiastic about packaging nevertheless it’s very, very uncommon I do. It’s simply not one thing that I search for in magnificence anymore and easily not one thing I care about.

Vital feedback beneath the guise of being useful
Thanks on your assist however telling me I look outdated due to my blush shade or another backhanded remark beneath the guise you’re serving to me out isn’t one thing I care about anymore. I used to take feedback to coronary heart however I discover myself caring much less and fewer about them these days. If you wish to assist me out I’ll fortunately settle for your criticism however not if it’s in a backhanded method. I simply really feel like there’s a method nicer solution to provide assist with out being a d*ck about it. I discover myself caring much less about crappy feedback and simply let individuals say no matter and transfer on from it.

Okay, Say What You Need
I don’t get this one lots anymore as a result of I’m surrounded by a lot love on this web site however often I’ll get a snarky, imply spirited remark. And naturally, I’ve been Reddit well-known a time or two with loads of hate coming at me for the way I do my make-up, to how I swatch, to the best way I do my hair, or gown, and so forth… Once I first began running a blog this could upset me and I used to be type of shocked anybody would need to direct that a lot hate on somebody they didn’t know. Quite a lot of it was excused with, “Effectively, she places herself on the market so she deserves it!” I perceive it just a little bit higher now that I’m older and I even type of get it to some extent. Do I prefer it? No. Who desires anybody to hate on them however hey, it’s what it’s and as I grow old I discover that I care lots much less what individuals are saying about me significantly ones which might be both strangers or simply not part of my life. I simply don’t care anymore and I concentrate on the great not the unhealthy.

Bins
This one in all probability needs to be grouped in with packaging however I do suppose it deserves a separate dialogue. Nobody advised me that once I acquired older I’d need issues to be easier. I keep in mind as a make-up lover and collector that I’d save each single field and most instances I used to be even storing stuff within the bins. I’m speaking about even probably the most fundamental of fundamental bins like my MAC Eyeshadows I’d have all of them within the bins. It was just a little absurd and maybe OCDish of me. The final a number of years I merely don’t care about bins anymore. SOMETIMES I’ll maintain a field however even my LE bins are simply tossed out. I don’t want all these bins and it’s absurd I ever thought I did. I don’t care about bins or holding make-up of their bins anymore.

No Concealer? No Downside!
There was a time in my life I wouldn’t go away the home with out make-up on. It made me really feel assured and pleased. The older I get the much less I put on and generally I even exit with none in any respect. Why am I hiding my pores and skin? I’ve good pores and skin why am I piling basis, concealer, blush, and extra on once I look completely nice (and even youthful) with out all of it? I simply don’t care about having a face stuffed with make-up on once I exit anymore.

Model Pleasing.
I say what I would like once I need about who I would like. I’m not right here to spare the sentiments of magnificence manufacturers. At one level, in my running a blog life I felt like I used to be being to model pleasing and I remorse that terribly as a result of it did my readers a disservice. I’m not right here to model please. I communicate my reality and my thoughts and if manufacturers don’t like that too unhealthy. This weblog is about being sincere, telling reader’s what I actually suppose and really feel, and never about saying nice issues a few mediocre product. I merely don’t care about model pleasing.

That is my magnificence life and I simply don’t care about sure issues anymore and that’s okay as a result of it provides me time to focus on extra necessary issues. Once you aren’t dwelling on the bizarre or unhealthy stuff you will have extra time to embrace the great. And that’s how life needs to be!

Thanks for being with me right here for this journey. I recognize you all!